going to the chapel..or at least the court house

<sarah> · Post by **<sarah>** » Thu Sep 26, 2002 9:32 pm

who has the torted view that we're using as a reference point (that's not a real word, is it?)

LOVE, who can define such an abstract noun

<rosie> · Post by **<rosie>** » Mon Sep 30, 2002 2:31 am

don't just make a statement and not explain.what are your views? have you ever been divorced?
or dated haters? i love that word

Brett · Post by **Brett** » Mon Sep 30, 2002 6:50 pm

Of course I've had bad relatioships. Who hasn't? But now that I look back I see that it was never love, no matter how much I thought so at the time. It was lust, always a confusing aspect in relationships. Maybe I'm a romantic but I really believe love is forever. I'm not saying you can't love more than one person, but when you find love I think it takes a while to appreciate it. I've had fights with my wife but I would NEVER spit in her face. I respect her way to much to act like such a pathetic child around her. I love her. I love her so much that I can't imagine waking up without her. I look forward to seeing her everyday. Love endures and it's about lust & respect. I want her, she's hot and i know it. I also love getting drunk with her and argueing politics, books and about where we should travel next. I love touching her and looking at her. I love to watch her sleep. I'm ranting. Sorry. It's sad to have a low opinion of love, it can make everything you do worthwhile. Trust me. I'm not real good at putting my feelings down on paper, I'm more of a talker so please excuse me if I can't get my point across properly. I don't want to judge you, I don't know you. It just made me remember some past relationships when I read your post. I do know how you feel. You should go for a hike in the mountains with some dogs to clear your mind. If you don't have any I'd be happy to lend you mine. They're fat and stupid but quite lovable.

<Jack Chiefton> · Post by **<Jack Chiefton>** » Tue Oct 01, 2002 9:14 pm

presently, love, to me, are my vinyl records, and returnable cases of huber beer. Throw in FIFA soccer 98, and i'm lovestruck. i get googly eyed when those three loves come together. As far as flesh, is it wrong to let someone know that you don't lover her at all meanwhile you're banging her everytime you get together? I may be getting over my head because at one point she agreed with me, now she emails me 4 times a day and it's getting quite annoying. yeah, i'm a pig.

Post by **mccutcheon** » Tue Oct 01, 2002 10:31 pm

be honest. say "I dig you baby, but right now I just want to fuck" and you will be surprised how many girls will say that is cool with them. Then you will be even more surprised at how many girls just said that to be cool thinking they will change that and you and they will get what they want.

I ain't changing for anyone. Piggish and lonely or maybe strong and resolved? who knows. sex, no matter what you call it, is important and everyone really wants to do it. I mean sex is almost as important as a Guinness and a Clash song together in the Evil Heat!

Post by **mccutcheon** » Tue Oct 01, 2002 10:33 pm

Sloth, can you change my log in location to say Evil Heat? Thanls married man. Today the Sloth got hitched. I drink to him.

tashasimone · Post by **tashasimone** » Thu Jan 02, 2003 3:02 pm

ahh, Mc, I'll come live with you and drink and read and screw you all the time!

Post by **mccutcheon** » Fri Jan 03, 2003 4:56 pm

I think this is great. Amanda didn't see it that way though. I said it's good for the Pax Acidus community.

Myke115 · Post by **Myke115** » Sun Jan 05, 2003 6:41 pm

I always used to think I'd be married with a kid or two by this age in life (35 -- which I recently passed). I'm not and not the least unhappy about it. Most of the folks I know who got married much younger got divorced and are at it again and many talk about wishing they had done so many things that they haven't. I know if I find the right gal I'll make a better husband and it'll last. I've got my education, have very little debt, and have sown lots of wild oats .... just now need a lovely lady to see the world and the rest of life with. If not ... the dog goes everywhere with me anyway! Except the UK ... damn those quarantine laws they have.

Post by **Sloth** » Mon Jan 06, 2003 9:19 pm

If you go to France you can take your dog... and also he/she can dine with you at any cafe.

However French dogs don't bark or shit just anywhere they please and much better behaved in general than their American canine counterparts.

tashasimone · Post by **tashasimone** » Mon Jan 06, 2003 10:33 pm

Its not like Americans take Marriage too seriously these days anyway. I remember, my grandparents were married for 50 years, 50 years! Now your lucky if you get past the 4 year starter marriages- the ones right out of highschool, and because of pregnancies and all that rot. When (and IF) I get married again It will be just the once, and so help me God, if he ever wants out I'll just have to kill him. Divorce is a mean and ugly thing, full of greed and bitterness that I dont care to go throughfor a second round,.and lets face the facts kids, nothing lasts forever, even, and especially not love. I think instead of needing a peice of paper to declare ourselves as "together"- what we should really do is move in together, get a dog, and see how that goes. 5 years down the road, if the dog is still alive, in good health, and you dont want to kill eachother, and aren't always trying to pass off responsibility on to eachother, well then hell yeah, get married! But untill then, jesus christ, all your doing is fucking up the next generation of children- (might i remind you the one's who will be taking care of us someday) into thinking its okay to just do it, leave it, do it, leave it, and thats ubsurd, and quite honestly makes me want to vomit. (yes, Ive been married, can you tell?)

Post by **mccutcheon** » Wed Jan 08, 2003 1:58 am

Tasha how old are you? I loved the fact you wanted to have sex with me- though didn't reply because I thought you were 15 and have a girlfriend and all that, but to write something that would make a person feel that way? Wow. Cool. (Honestly- it is the most flattering thing in the world when another person sincerely wants to fuck your brains out, in which I mean they might not want to do it in the practical physicality of it, but have a fantasy of that nature. It's different than the perverts at the park, construction workers whistling and drunk groupies giggling and throwing up on your Lou Reed records) sex and the thought of it is important. Sex during war time, Sex Starts in the Mind (a great short story by some wanker presently getting translated into German) and this what I posted a few months ago on this same thread:

Sex, no matter what you call it, is important and everyone really wants to do it. I mean sex is almost as important as a Guinness and a Clash song together in the Evil Heat!

RIP Strummer! True punks do die way too young.

Death is why we have sex.

Myke115 · Post by **Myke115** » Wed Jan 08, 2003 2:44 am

How cool it would be to dine with your dog at an outdoor cafe in Paris, Amsterdam, or Prague. My little dog may be a mutt ... but damn what a good friend through some of the nasty stuff in life ...

<mmm> · Post by **<mmm>** » Wed Jan 08, 2003 3:06 am

mccutcheon, I love your statement.."death is why we have sex"...great!...by the way guys, this is such a good threat...if I may say something too...in regards to sex starts in the mind..man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just saw my new neighbor from downstairs..and as he was sitting on the couch...I got kind of nervous..all I could think was I wanna fuck you damn...that hasn't happened all too often too me...I mean to have such crazy thoughts about someone right away...and maybe it is just because I just broke up with my boyfriend an am hurting a lot..sometimes I think you know he is not the type you want to have a relationship with..you just think how fucking good he would be in bed and how his lips would feel and how his smooth skin would feel on yours...I was thinking of some close and sexy dance moves with that guy which would of course and up...you know...it kind of confused me..but I think that is probably the best therapy against lovesickness!!!!! sex - pure - nothing else - cheers !!!!

tashasimone · Post by **tashasimone** » Wed Jan 08, 2003 9:41 pm

okay, mc- first of all I am 21, almost 22. I was married 9 days after my 18th birthday, and well, lets say it wasnt the funnnest couple years of my life. Do i sound 15? That may be one of the worst things anyone has said to me in a very long time, but i know you didnt mean it in an insulting way. Yes, I would love to have sex with you, or rather with our words, if that were possible. You are a very attractive man as well, but somehow, the things you write just get me, like I feel like maybe you are just like me, but male, and that maybe we knew eachother in a past life or some such shit like that. When I read the things you write I just want to hold you and kiss you and make everything okay for you, take away all your pain, and sorrow, and touch you in the most delicate of places. You turn me on, baby, more than anyone that i know has in so long. I know that gets you off to know your turning me on, so I hope its as good for you as it is for me. I read "Sex starts in the Mind" And was blown away, your indescision about all the things you do, Your brain wanting one thing and your dick another.... I mean, damn, could you possibly know me any more? Sometimes things will be getting all hot and heavy and I'll just want to walk away, and write it all down to savor the moment, add details that probably didnt happen, twist it into my own creation of something more beautiful, less dirty, less inhibited, but of course, sex is great, and I follow through, and later can never get the words just right, like how the moment really was. Sex definetly starts in the mind, and sometimes ends there as well.