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[bfj]

Hey Tommy, on the booty call front I got this one for you, in the cincy area, she's got a kid too.

"Seeking a man who knows how to please a woman - w4m - 47

Reply to: pers-154087252@craigslist.org
Date: 2006-04-24, 12:14PM EDT


I am a 47 year old white female, very, very good looking, slender, 5-7, 125, and in a long distance relationship. I need the touch of a man while my lover is away. He fully supports me giving my body to another man while we are apart so I can be sexually satisfied until we can be together. My need for physical passion is overwhelming at times and it would be wonderful to be sexually satisfied by a younger man who is well endowed, not attached, and good looking. I seek a younger man because I look much younger than my age and men my age are usually not in good shape. I seek a larger than average penis size because they feel so good inside me and in my mouth. I seek a man who is not attached because I do not want to hurt any woman who may be involved with him.

One other thing, every session we have must be video recorded so I can send it to my lover so he can be involved with my sexual activities. This vide may put a damper on most of you but it is a requirement. It is a very tricky situation to be making love to another man while in a long distance relationship, so in order to maintain trust and openness; I must show him a video of all that I do. I cannot host because I have a child at home, so you must have the means to pay for a room or be able to host. The first time will be in a hotel room for security and then we can go to your place if we want to continue.

To get a reply you must send a face and body shot and a penis shot so I can evaluate your looks, physical condition and penis size. "

[marky]

Yikes!

Tommy I still feel bad for you and the kids. It's a real shame that she seems unaware or uncaring about how hard it will be on them. If she's not the maternal type, I can't help but wonder why she wanted another child. But anyway, like I said I guess it's not my place to judge.

[megapulse]

so i talked to a lady i work with today -- she's a math teacher, and she's dyslexic. her son is also dyslexic and was greatly helped in the 2nd grade by a reading specialist. she told me about a book and is going to bring it to me tomorrow.

she said a lot of times dyslexia is hereditary, but not all of the time, so there is that, and she said that there is definitely a test that you take to be diagnosed . . . don't know if henry's had it or not.

the lady i talked to also explained that her son is in public schools and has an iep, and he has a separate teacher available to help in his reading and classwork, but he is not taken out of classes for extra work. she was very positive about dyslexia. i asked her how she got through school; she said, i was very good in math, and that helped my self esteem. so what's henry good at?

and about public schools i guess it is basically luck of the draw. if you get someone in primary ed who has a masters in reading, you may very well get the person who can help henry there, if not . . . then you may need to go seek someone like this out. (not video woman -- although that may be the excitement you need; she very well could be the one to help you out, if your penis size ranks up . . . haha! )

[megapulse]

if henry's not been tested and diagnosed it needs to be done asap, faster than arbitration. It should be the first thing on mrs. tommy and your list of things to do. it's more important than a divorce because studies show that the earlier dyslexia is diagnosed the better the results of treatment. And this will definitely have an effect, (which could be very negative if not treated, and does not have to be negative at all if taken care of), on the rest of his life, whether or not your divorce will have a negative effect is very debatable. most of my friends whose parents divorced when they were young are some of the most successful -- the producer of second city, the guy who i was with prior and partially during the hubby who's making a buttload -- these folks are both happily married and have successful careers. their parents divorces didn't harm them in the long run, and one of them had a completely drunk dead beat dad. . . it just motivated him to not be that.

okay the book is Overcoming Dyslexia: a new and complete science-based program for reading problems at any level by sally shaywitz, m.d. -- sally shaywitz is the codirector of the yale center for the study of learning and attention, so she's probably a good resource all around for you considering there is reason to think henry's also adhd.

i've not read it. there are some good reviews of it on amazon. she said it is really great and gave me her copy.

good luck.

[Tommy Martyn]

Sorry I was late getting back to you but I was busy with Swedish penis pump.

On the school front, Henry is at just about the best school in a 100 mile radius. They have been nothing short of brilliant with him recently. (He is in a class of 8 so he gets plenty of attention) All of this comes at a price, but my father in law is happy to spend the money and will continue to do so. Indeed, he offered me money last week for Henry to have a some therapy to get him over what will obviously be a big jolt when the split comes.

We are talking about doing some testing with the school. I will see what the resident behaviourist thinks.

[megapulse]

that's great.

i just got back from the doctor's office.

I AM PREGNANT!! I can't believe it!! This IS lucky number seven. I did not think it was even possible for me, and I think the sperm-egg-baby went to Honduras.

They guestimated me to already be in the twelfth week. i'm like no fair, i did not know i was pregnant and i've missed knowing all this time.

I am going to have a baby! I am so excited. I hope everything is okay. We're going to see the doctor for the first pregnancy pow-wow on tuesday, and we might even get to see pictures then. I hope so.

well so okay.

i'm glad henry's grandpa can afford good schooling for him. that is very important. and good luck on the emotional stuff. i do think he'll be alright with you for a dad. you seem like a truly great one. !!

[marky]

Congrats Sarah! What a lovely surprise.

[megapulse]

thanks very much. it's awesome although i've felt like i wanted to throw up all day. it's still very awesome -- the best surprise in the world i think.

[Sloth]

Happy times! It's great to hear that people still want them. What a lucky kid to have such a literary mom.

[Tommy Martyn]

Sincerely, this is the best news I have heard all week. Congratulations.

[megapulse]

thanks again. the hubby's working tonight at the fire station. so i feel weird. i mean it was people people people for two days now it's like . . . i just watched soylent green with the dogs on the couch and am like, oh, gross, baby, i'm sorry. we won't watch that again.

thanks tommy. i'm glad it's good news for you. i thought you might like to hear some.

[Maverick]

congratulations str! that baby/fetus is already pretty well traveled.

[Tommy Martyn]

Sometimes I think there is just too much good news in the world. Let's get back to the problems. Tonight we had a big sit down. We had our arbitration guidelines out on the table and we talked about splitting the money and visitation. Let me tell you that it has been hell living in this house recently. We aren't fighting, but obviously it is a difficult atmosphere. We mostly agreed on the money. The visitation rights were, in my opinion, going to be the sticking point. Tracy asked for one weeknight per week and one weekend night every two weeks. FUCK ME. I knew that she wasn't the most maternal of types, but I see people I fucking hate more than that. When you factor in that she will be gone for 3 months this summer, to say nothing of all of next week and a full week two weeks after that, you get a clear impression of how much these beautiful children mean to her. Man, I didn't know what to say. (For the record I said nothing. I just nodded.) As much as I wanted to smack her for the indifference to these children who are about to have the big hurt visited upon them, I was elated that she wouldn't be demanding lots of time with them seeing as she is a borderline drunk.

Hey ho.

[Alta Vista [Bot]]

Tommy,

After reading a few posts and replies regarding your divorce, I am puzzled as to how you were with this woman for so long. She doesn't seem to care one way or another what happens with the children. It doesn't appear she really wants to see them that often.

Although I find this situation tragic, it would seem to me that you have a pretty good deal in this. You can keep two great kids, get some help from the father-in-law...and get rid a woman who appears to be taking advantage of you.

Now, I have a child who I see every couple months or so because I live out of state, but every moment we're together is one I will never forget. I can't believe your wife has so little interest in her own children.

Anywho, I'm just another guy that's been there and done that. I am sorry for your troubles. Take care.

[TragicPixie]

Unfortunately Tommy that is the standard as far as visitation with kids goes. I mean - perhaps it's only appalling because this is your wife ... mmmmm... *raises eyebrows*

But I'll save my feminist bitching and just say that honestly your kids are lucky to have at least one parent and seemingly a wonderfully supportive extended family.